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Fatigue, mood changes, weight gain and reduced libido... by now, you'll know that these can be symptoms of menopause.    

But did you know they can also be a sign of testosterone deficiency in men?1-3    

A decrease in hormones can naturally occur in men as they get older.1,3        
           
If you have a male partner, being there for one another and having honest conversations about changes you’re experiencing may help you both to feel understood, supported and strong in your relationship.4    

By starting the conversation, you could make a real difference to your health, his wellbeing and your connection as a couple.             
 

Together, you can discuss what changing hormones might
mean – and navigate change as a united partnership.

Are you and your partner ready to check your symptoms?

MENOPAUSE QUESTIONNAIRETESTOSTERONE DEFICIENCY QUESTIONNAIRE

WHAT IS TESTOSTERONE DEFICIENCY?


Testosterone deficiency (TD) happens when a man’s body produces too little testosterone, which can happen for several reasons.1      

Testosterone is a hormone that plays a key role in controlling energy levels, mood, sex drive and more.1,5

 

TD is believed to affect 8-12% of men over 50, though many go undiagnosed.1,6,7 This number rises for men who are obese or who have type 2 diabetes, with TD being seen in:


 

~40% of men with type 2 diabetes8      

45–57.5% of obese men9


 

Testosterone levels in men gradually decline with age so symptoms of TD often get worse over time.11      
Left unmanaged, it can lead to issues such as reduced bone density, depression, fatigue and problems with intimacy.1,5,10

 

However, the good news is that TD is manageable,1 so if you think your male partner may be affected, it’s important that they speak to their doctor to get help.      

A small nudge to start that journey could make a big difference to his health. 

The role of hormones in WOMEN'S AND MEN'S health

To help you understand changing hormone levels in you and your partner, explore the hormone sliders below.

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Did you know?

Men produce oestrogen and progesterone as well as testosterone.22 
While their oestrogen and progesterone levels are lower than in women, these hormones still play a role in mood, fertility and bone health.22

How you can help your partner

You know your partner better than anyone.
So, if something feels different, trust your instincts and start a conversation about
the possibility of it being related to
hormone changes.   

Supporting your partner through the changes he’s facing can have a positive impact on your relationship overall – deepening trust, boosting emotional intimacy and helping you both feel more connected. Follow the tips to get started.

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Spot the signs

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Is he more tired than usual? Distant or disinterested in things he used to enjoy?

While there can be other causes, these signs suggest that he may need to get checked for TD

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Start the conversation

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Choose a relaxed moment to share how you’re feeling – and ask how he’s doing

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TAKE THE QUESTIONNAIRE TOGETHER

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They are a quick, private and useful step
toward understanding
what’s going on

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Encourage him to get checked

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A doctor can provide clarity and a management plan, if needed

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MENOPAUSE QUESTIONNAIRE FOR WOMEN

In just a few minutes, both you and your partner can complete questionnaires to see how hormone changes may be affecting you!     

Why not start with the menopause questionnaire, and then encourage your partner to take the testosterone deficiency questionnaire? You might notice some crossover between the symptoms of menopause and TD - so it makes sense to share your experiences.

MENOPAUSE QUESTIONNAIRE

TESTOSTERONE deficiency QUESTIONNAIRE FOR MEN

The Aging Males' Symptoms (AMS) scale is a tool to help men assess
the symptoms of aging. It helps to measure some of the key
symptoms of TD, such as low sex drive, depressive
mood and difficulty sleeping.23         

Men may find it helpful to bring their results when discussing
symptoms with their healthcare team.

TESTOSTERONE DEFICIENCY QUESTIONNAIRE

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  1. Haufe A, Baker FC, Leeners B. The role of ovarian hormones in the pathophysiology of perimenopausal sleep disturbances: A systematic review. Sleep Med Rev. 2022;66:101710.
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